Men,
Master presence.
Live intimately connected.
Liberate your Wild Man

“Never give a sword to a man who can’t dance.” — Confucius

Many men connect to their Wild through warped consumption culture, like pornography, junky pleasure and short lived highs, unaware that this desensitizes the heart, limiting your receptivity and availability to attune to yourself and deeply connect with your lover. The Wild needs to be trained and accepted to be authentically integrated, giving yourself the ability to experience the expansiveness of your wild vital energy, rather than feeling it drain you.

There are ways to develop your wild instincts with healthy habits, attunements and rituals. You can feel your power and strength with a guttural calm.  You are no longer fighting yourself, distracted and numb, and finally able to feel free in your body and connected to your lover, mission and service. 

You'll start to see your intimate relationships with yourself and others from a level of honesty, internal awareness and receptivity that will illuminate the places where there's been disconnect and you will remember how to reconnect and stay.  

“Elana has not only given me the framework to embody meaningful change in my life, she has fundamentally evolved my physio-emotion perspective on the world. I feel rooted and grounded, in my body, perhaps for the first time in decades, uncovering hidden potential to communicate more effectively with those I love and to align with my purpose. Her work is incredibly tangible, and that’s what distinguishes her in the field; she demystifies the abstract complexity of the human condition and brings it down to earth, in the heart and in the body.”

— Adrian Grenier
Earth-speed, Lonely Whale, Entourage

I offer customized programs for men and couples, in-person and online with 3-9 month commitments to get life changing results.

This work is a co-creation. Together, we’ll ignite a renewed sense of agency, intimacy and leadership into your life. I support the men I work with to live connected to their body, to become a master of their energy, be a receptive and attentive lover and father, feel confident, successful, and be a man of presence, essence and contribution. 

It all starts with a call where we align your intentions for our relationship.

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This is for you if you want to...

  • Become a more attuned lover, leader and father.

  • Advance emotional honesty during high intensity situations.

  • Cultivate a gravity of responsibility for more authentic connection in service to a more heart-centered partnership and love.

  • Increase intimacy, connection and presence.

  • Transform shame into self-acceptance and peace.

  • Find safety integrated in your anger, power and primal essence.

  • Grow the ways in which you experience sensuality and self-expression without it being about sex.

  • Subvert society's ideas of sexuality as attainment and conquering to attunement, service, and reverence.

  • Cultivating a gravity of responsibility for more authentic connection in service to a more heart-centered partnership and love.

  • Bring awareness to suppressed parts of yourself that you feel don’t belong, keeping you stuck and “safe” in your mind.

  • Refined authentic purpose.

“Working with Elana was a revelation. A chance to uncover old habits and hidden boundaries that were getting in the way of my growth and deepest pleasure with my partner. I walked away from our time together with more clarity about my desires and tangible practices to get more of what I want...from myself and my partner.'“

— Andrew Horn, CEO Tribute & Junto

Testimonials

“Elana challenges your authentic self to engage in the present moment. This process provides real time observations and feedback for seeing things as they actually are.”
— Josiah Cain
Design Engineer

“Instead of what feels true in my mind, I’m now paying attention to what feels true in my body.”
— Joe Richman
NPR Radio diaries

“I finally surrendered. I got the tools to connect and level up.”
— Hugo Lui PHD
Chief Scientist at Aristry